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Where Are You Going?

“When you know where you are going, the universe will clear a path for you.” -Iyanla Vanzant

Dig deep into YOURSELF to find YOUR strengths. YOU’RE in control so make the best choice to guide YOUR destiny.

Allow a transformation to take place and be the best YOU you can be.

Take time today to determine where YOU’RE going and watch the universe shift, realign, and clear a path for YOU!

-A Lavender Place

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A Single Mom Pauses for the Cause.

As a single mother, I take a moment to pause for the cause. The cause is the same, but the tasks change, daily.

This is the day to appreciate those people who took time to invest in you. Their invests give us strength to pass the positive energy to another in need.

Today, the following things occurred and because of your investment I was able to

  • Provide support and encouragement to someone who was recently diagnosed with a life threatening disease.
  • Homeschool my son through a rocks and minerals science project.
  • Comfort a friend whose child has been hospitalized for 2 weeks.
  • Make dinner for a friend who is an essential employee working through the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • Comfort two friends who were layed off due to COVID-19 budget cuts.

The day ended in pure exhaustion and a deficit in my mental ability.

Please take a moment to thank those who believed in you, even when you didn’t believe in yourself. Pause for the cause and pay it forward!

Replenish, refuel and restore! Tell us who you’d like to thank for investing in you.

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When in doubt, TAPP it Out.

RING!!!! The alarm goes off and scares you to oblivion. You shove the clock to the other side of the night stand and it falls to the floor. At that moment, you realized it was going to be one of “those” days!

You overslept and are unable to satisfy the morning routine of meditation and prayer; there’s no time to blend the protein, vitamin packed smoothie and make lunches for the day. 

The process of waking up the kids is a task, getting them dressed and searching for the tie to complete the school uniform seems endless. Finally, you manage to get everything done and it’s time to walk out of the door.

But wait! You hear a small voice. That voice says, “mommy, I need to use the bathroom.” As you lean against the wall attempting to hold it together, your heart sinks to the pit of your stomach. You drop everything – cell phone, smoothie cup, purse, laptop bag, and lunch. Nooooooo….

That is when you take a moment and TAPP it out!

Take a deep breath

Acknowledge the issue

Put things into perspective

Pray for strength and guidance

Parenthood is one of the most rewarding roles to have. However, we must be honest and recognize it can be one of the most exhausting. I encourage you to find something you enjoy doing to help maintain balance – read a good book, workout, start a blog, take a vacation or try a new class. Learning something new is a good way to boost one’s self confidence.

Share something new you have tried to help maintain balance in your life. I look forward to hearing your responses.